20 Questions try 10,000 questions

We had an appointment the other night at the doctor with the nurse practioner. We were asked what seemed 1,000's of questions. Do we want to circumsize, do I want to breast feed, do we want to video tape etc. Then all of the tests were just thrown at us paperwork and all. After further research it appears these tests are controversial, but also can give false positives. This makes me say....perhaps I do not want these tests. Now I also, think that this decision and most decisions (minus that fact that I do in fact want an epidural) should be made by BOTH my hubby and I. So I am assuming this will begin the first of millions of choices we are going to have to make about not only pregnancy, but also the child in general. That appointment should come with a disclaimer.